Wednesday, 18 February 2026

Cancel Culture Club #7: He Hit Me...


I had wondered whether there was any merit / desire to continue the Cancel Culture Club into 2026. We had such a good run towards the end of last year, maybe we should have quit while we were ahead.

I decided to test the water and see if there was any willingness to continue. And despite (or perhaps because of) the rather sensitive subject matter of today’s songs, the committee rose to the occasion. Let’s hear what they all think of this "classic" 1962 single from Phil Spector’s Wall Of Sound…

We’ll start with JC, the Vinyl Villain, purely because he was the first to send me a reply. And to be honest, until he did, I figured we were all prepared to let this feature fade into the mists of the blogosphere…

The Phil Spector ‘wall of sound’ era was the early-mid 60s, and so my initial knowledge of the songs that had been huge hits came solely from hearing them, as a young kid, on BBC Radio shows at least a decade or so later.  The songs were constantly played in ‘Golden Hour’ segments and suchlike, and with the radio being a near constant presence in my home, I can, more or less, still recite the likes of ‘Be My Baby’, ‘Da Doo Ron Ron’ and ‘River Deep, Mountain High’ as they are ingrained in my memory.

But I can’t do similar with ‘He Hit Me (It Felt Like A Kiss)’.  Indeed, I had to go to You Tube to familiarise myself with it, and I genuinely didn’t recognise it.  I’m not saying, for certain, that this was the very first time I will have heard it, but it wasn’t a tune I recognised.

This, in my mind anyway, kind of says that the song was cancelled long before that sort of phrase had ever been thought of.   Having now heard the lyric, and looked it up online to make sure I had heard it properly, let’s keep it that way.  It’s abhorrent.

It turns out that JC is right - the song was pretty much cancelled back in the day… something I hadn’t realised myself as it still crops up on Crystals and Spector compilations pretty frequently. Allmusic tells us…

While radio play was initially encouraging, the complaints quickly began pouring in and, with the general public itself apparently preparing to rise up in protest against the record, igniting one of those periodic feeding frenzies to which society is so oddly prone, Spector pulled the single, ironically just as it prepared to enter the chart. Controversy can encourage sales, after all, as well as cripple them.

We’ll return to JC later, but for now let’s jump over to Khayem from Dubhed, who’s ready to separate the song from the sentiment… to start with, at least.

Structurally and sonically, it’s a brilliant song, the minimal (at least, for Phil Spector) layers of sound perfectly complementing a frankly perfect vocal delivery.

Neither songwriters Gerry Goffin and Carole King nor Spector have, as far as I’m aware, sought to present the song as anything other than what it was, the narrator rationalising that being hit by her boyfriend is a sign of his love. The song was inspired by a real-life exchange Goffin & King had with a teenage “Little” Eva (pre-Locomotion, she was their babysitter), when she shared that she was regularly beaten by her boyfriend, but had normalised the experience.

The song makes no attempt at a value judgement or counter, the narrator simply presents their perspective as a statement of fact. I don’t know that Goffin & King were intentionally trying to subvert the pop form, but there is a power in what is left out as much as what is explicit in the lyrics.

“If he didn’t care for me
I could never have made him mad
But he hit me
And I was glad”

The image those lines create is of an otherwise emotionally bereft, controlling relationship where physical harm is seen as a validation, a hint of attention, a ‘gift’ of love.

And it’s clear that the chilling final line of “And when he kissed me / He made me his” isn’t about how we might make ourselves vulnerable and give ourselves wholly when feeling in love, but of objectification, of being owned, possessed.

At least, that’s how it looks in the 21st century. I get it, that I was already an adult when I first heard this song properly, with a (slightly) greater understanding of what is now recognised and reviled as abusive behaviour.

Would the target audience of 1962 have read between the lines? Possibly not, given that it seemed socially acceptable - amusing, even - to hit women until relatively recently. That scene in 1980 film Airplane! springs to mind, with passengers queueing behind Leslie Neilson’s doctor to ‘slap sense’ into a distraught female passenger. And this is a comedy.

I had asked myself exactly the same question, K, so I was rather surprised to discover (above) that most of the audience back in 1962 clearly could read between the lines and didn’t like what they heard. It’s always tempting to wonder if the generations that preceded us were ignorant savages. It’s the arrogance of youth, but I should be growing out of that now I’m in my 50s. Maybe we never learn. 

Yet, I’m sure that the song resonated with many, who read that deeper, darker meaning into the lyrics at the time. Despite Spector’s ‘neutral’ production - and acknowledging the subsequent revelation of his monstrous abuse of woman - this is no jaunty sing-a-long. The funereal bass line throughout and Barbara Alston’s vocals are not the norm. I hear the latter now as being flat and disembodied, the life and expression seemingly dissipated, the words of ‘justification’ seemingly learned by rote. That said, it’s perhaps no surprise that the band disliked the song and Alston later disowned it.

Interestingly, Carole King would also disown the song later in her life – but perhaps that change of heart only game after she herself fell victim to domestic violence (not from Goffin, but from her third husband, Rick Evers, who died in 1978).

I have a couple of cover versions of He Hit Me (And It Felt Like A Kiss) in my collection. One is by Grizzly Bear, which effectively translates to a same-sex relationship. The other is by Catherine Anne Davies, aka The Anchoress, who has openly shared her lived experience of an abusive relationship. I recalled that they both sounded like pretty straight covers but I was intrigued to revisit them and see if either artists had adapted the lyrics in any way. As it happens, they haven’t.

Grizzly Bear – He Hit Me

The Anchoress - He Hit Me (And It Felt Like A Kiss)

All of which protracted preamble (and thanks for sticking with me) leads me to conclude that I don’t think this song should be cancelled. I don’t think the writers or performers, then and now, have intended to present a narrative or message that an abusive relationship is okay. They’re simply conveyed the perception of someone in that situation and left it to the listener to arrive at their own understanding and interpretation of the narrative.

I think you nailed that, K – over on allmusic again, critic Dave Thompson suggested that both the songwriters and Spector were more interested in “documenting” domestic violence rather than “preaching”. Again, it’s tempting to wonder if a pop song aimed primarily at teenagers is the right place to do that… but in asking that question, am I making a similar value judgement on young people that I aimed at older generations earlier? Can’t teenagers be just as socially aware as adults – even more so in some cases? I dunno… I think back to myself as a teenager. I certainly thought I knew it all, and knew better than my elders in a lot of cases… but a lot of my opinions back then wouldn’t stand up to any kind of scrutiny today.

Elvis Costello - White Knuckles

Let’s move on to C from Sundried Sparrows, who also feels initially torn between the medium and the message…

Sadly, no matter how much I like this song aurally for its kitsch, characteristically Spector, production - the strings, the drumbeat, the vocals so of their time, etc. - I just can't listen to it now without thinking about the many women I've heard about, and the few whom I've also known, who've been physically abused by their partners.  The song delivers its heartrending message with haunting sincerity.  At no point does it seem satirical or exaggerated.  He hit me.  And I was glad.

It absolutely nails the particularly toxic psychological element of an abusive relationship. The very idea that the boyfriend's violent reaction to the girl's unfaithfulness is proof of his "love", and that she's grateful for this, grateful that he showed how much he "cares", reveals so much. She's grateful to be loved by someone capable of hitting her, as if the circumstances - where she confessed to being unfaithful - made it perfectly acceptable for him to do so. We all know that, in reality, it wouldn't end there. It would only be the beginning.  The balance of power has already been tested and proven in his favour, the cycle of abuse would continue.

I’m reminded of Lucy Mangan’s review of a new Netflix documentary that I read recently in the Grauniad. I’ll quote a whole paragraph for context…

Lover, Liar, Predator tells the stories of several women who were coerced, abused and raped by a man called Aaron Swan over his decades-long career. He was 17 when he approached Natalie at a party. She was 17 too but, as a devout Christian with a very protected upbringing, effectively younger and highly vulnerable to his charms. He put pressure on her to give up her virginity. She got pregnant and they married. He was “demeaning and unkind” to her, insulting her looks, claiming to be in love with his ex and subjecting her to violent, unwanted sex (“I endured whatever was required … I thought that’s what sex was”) for years.

Mangan calls the documentary “an instant rebuttal to that most unsympathetic question: why don’t women just leave their abuser?”, and the explanation given at the end of the paragraph above is both horrifying and deeply, deeply sad. It’s heartbreaking that anyone can grow to accept this behaviour as a norm. And in the current climate, where so many rich, powerful men are attempting to justify the mistreatment of women, to excuse it, to normalise it (or to just pretend it didn’t happen)… I guess we have to keep reminding ourselves how that power balance works. Maybe that’s a reason not to cancel this song, as unpleasant as it clearly is. And maybe that’s why artists like the ones Khayem cites above feel the need to revisit it 60+ years later.

Jennifer Nettles ft. Brandy Clark - His Hands 

I’m sorry, C, I interrupted. Do continue…

It's very telling too, I think, that our narrator uses the phrase, "but it didn't hurt me".  It's really subtle but something about the use of the words "it" and "me" in this line give it a different slant. To me this says nothing about actual physical pain, instead it appears to refer to the overall outcome - i.e. she's come out of it ok.  She now has proof of his love, no harm done.  Being hit and being kissed are now metaphorically the same to her, declarations of adoration.

Which takes us right back to that chilling quote from the Lucy Mangan article, doesn’t it?

Also very telling, as sadly so many women in abusive relationships will attest to, is the description of the boyfriend's tenderness immediately afterwards.  It's so desperately, horribly true that typical behaviour of an abuser is to bombard their partner with affection, tenderness and remorse as well - lovebombing - enough to manipulate the abused into complete forgiveness and denial of the bright scarlet flags being waved in their faces.   And then we get the possession thing: "and when he kissed me, he made me his".  Of course, all my modern feminist tendencies are aggrieved by this one small possessive word - and I know it was very different in past decades, I must cut it some slack!  But still, given what has gone on before in this simple, disturbing description of a relationship, that final line carries a graver message.

Yeah, I don’t think that line would be so exceptional in another pop song – there’s a distinction surely to be made between possession in terms of ownership and possession in terms of symbiotic devotion? It’s human nature to want to be so close to another person as to feel like you belong to them. I thought about all the songs that use this particular phrase... 

Elvis Costello – You Belong To Me

Suede - You Belong To Me

The Duprees - You Belong To Me

Doobie Brothers - You Belong To Me

Bryan Adams - You Belong To Me

Bob Dylan - She Belongs To Me

Or even more common, claim ownership through use of the possessive pronoun…

Nat 'King' Cole - Because You're Mine 

Del Shannon - Sue's Gotta Be Mine

Lou Christie - I'm Gonna Make You Mine

Michael Jackson & Paul McCartney - The Girl Is Mine

Cameo - She's Mine

Guns 'N' Roses - Sweet Child O' Mine /  You Could Be Mine

Contrast those with the ones where someone swears they belong to you…

Caro Emerald - I Belong To You

Brandi Carlile - I Belong To You

Marilyn Monroe - My Heart Belongs To Daddy

Gina G - I Belong To You

B*Witched - To You I Belong

The Shirelles - My Heart Belongs To You

And then I thought about all the songs that deny “ownership” as part of a relationship.

Lesley Gore – You Down Own Me

Belinda Carlisle - Nobody Owns Me

Hinda Hicks - You Think You Own Me

Angus and Julia Stone - I'm Not Yours

La Roux - I'm Not Your Toy

What do you notice about those lists? The songs claiming ownership all come from men. The ones pledging to be (or denying that they are) a possession all come from women.

Admittedly, I’ve rigged the vote, there were some songs that broke the gender barriers established in my samples above (in fact, after about 1990, far more women appear to be claiming a man to be “mine” than the other way round). Maybe relationship equality really has taken hold in the pop world?

Sorry, C – I keep interrupting you!

I only read about the history of this song after I'd put down my own thoughts - the background (as has probably already been mentioned) being that Goffin & King wrote it after their babysitter, Little Eva, told them that she put up with her boyfriend beating her because it was motivated by his love. I also read that there were widespread protests about it on its initial release, so it's not as if we're just coming at it from a more modern perspective.  Should it be cancelled now, though  - or are we able to hear it as a brutal but cautionary tale?  Unfortunately, whilst I can hear it as the latter, I just think it's too close for comfort for airplay in an age where domestic abuse is still so prevalent. And knowing it was based on truth and presented without any irony just puts the tin lid on it now.

Thank you, C.

The Chicks - Goodbye Earl

Ah yes – the irony interpretation. It would be possible to present the lyrics of this song in an ironic fashion – arguably, that may well be what the cover versions Khayem alerted us to earlier are attempting to do. But to quote Dave Thomson one more time…

In more ironic hands (and a more understanding age), 'He Hit Me' might have passed at least as satire. But Spector showed no sign of appreciating that, nor did he feel any need to.

Hozier - Cherry Wine

Which might be a good time to let Alyson of the Jukebox Time Machine have her say. What’s It All About, Alyson?

This response won’t take long Rol, because any song that is titled, He Hit Me (It Felt Like a Kiss) is a big no-no from me. Having looked into it a bit more, it seems this was a line used prior to the song being written as it appeared in films, most famously in the musical Carousel. The songwriters Gerry Goffin and Carol King apparently heard their babysitter (Little Eva of Locomotion fame) use it and Gerry (the lyricist) thought it would be a good subject matter for a song – WRONG. It seems that people who suffer domestic abuse or endure dysfunctional relationships can see it as a sign that their partner really loves them, because of the passion aroused in them at the thought of losing them!! I know what I would think if anyone ever hit me, and it wouldn’t be that they felt so passionately about me they were driven to violence. But I suppose I have been lucky in that regard, and not all women are as lucky. The fact Amy Winehouse also recorded it reflected her troubled relationship with “her Blake”.

I couldn’t find a version by Amy anywhere, Alyson, although I did find this clip where she discusses the song. Then again, I also saw it suggested online that Amy had wanted to do a cover of Lesley Gore’s You Don’t Own Me… but she settled on recording another Gore song instead.

Amy Winehouse – It’s My Party

It’s getting harder and harder to sift facts from fan- or AI-created nonsense these days though. Anyway, you were saying…

So, for the first time in this series, I am going for absolute cancellation. It doesn’t even have any redeeming features in terms of how it sounds – a dirge that matches the grim subject matter being explored. Ironic too that the song’s producer was Phil Spector who had a dire track record when it came to relationships with women.

Yes, I’m surprised other committee members haven’t made more of the fact that Phil Spector was the man behind this particular misfire. Perhaps Martin from New Amusements will have something to say about that…

The Crystals. Where to begin? I mean, the lyrics are desperate - first of all, our narrator tries to make light of her boyfriend's casual violence ("he hit me but it didn't hurt me"), then find a positive in it ("he hit me and I knew he loved me"), then celebrate it ("he hit me and I knew I loved him"). In the middle of all that, she even seems to welcome the abuse ("he hit me and I was glad"). All of which made me wonder if this warped perspective came from producer Phil Spector but no, it's a Goffin-King composition, and based on the real-life experience of their babysitter, Little Eva. So a cautionary tale, perhaps? And, as such, there may be no cultural grounds for cancellation. That said, this is far from the best work of everyone involved, so if I never heard it again I wouldn't be too upset. You might even say I was glad.

Which seems to be the overall sentiment regarding this particular tune. Thank you, Martin. But wait… when I threw this suggestion out to the committee, I also name-dropped a couple of other tunes which (on the surface, at least) tackle a similar subject matter. Mainly because I figured they might pop up as part of the discussion… although I’m wondering now if they might not have done, and the only reason people felt drawn to comment on them was because I’d made the link.

The first was this, which has quite a similar title…

Should we be equally disturbed by the way Florence links love to violence?

Let’s return to Martin

The Florence & The Machine track, at first glance, is less concerning. Both halves of the couple seem to be giving as good as they get: "You hit me once, I hit you back, you gave a kick, I gave a slap, you smashed a plate over my head, then I set fire to our bed" and so on. I mean, it's not a relationship I'd want to be in but if it works for them... except "a kiss with a fist is better than none". That doesn't seem like a healthy position for anyone to be in. That said, I have seen the argument that this song isn't about symbiotic domestic abuse but rather a metaphor for the strength of the narrator and her lover’s passion. Mind you, in the same paragraph I saw a parallel drawn with Bleeding Love by Leona Lewis, which possibly undermines the argument.

Leona Lewis - Bleeding Love

Bottom line? I wouldn't cancel either of them. I find The Crystals song more problematic, because of the excusing, acceptance and desperate celebration of the narrator's position. It feels less like she is an equal partner in a relationship, more like she has Stockholm syndrome. But it serves as a cautionary tale, perhaps, and gets people (not least the Cancel Culture Club jury) talking about these issues. And it's the same for Florence; I'm not sure I'd want anyone to be joyfully singing along with this, but if they're thinking about the position someone must be in to feel that a kiss with a fist is better than none, then the song has done some good work. Possibly.

Which brings us nicely back to the question about art being unafraid to tackle serious, disturbing issues and make us question our thoughts on such matters. But does that depend on the ability and maturity of the audience to appreciate those questions… should casual, throwaway “pop” art be given the same consideration in that respect as serious literature or fine art? Is it patronising to draw a line between the two… or necessary, in order to avoid misinterpretation and offence?

What did JC make of Kiss With A Fist?

Until posed the question by Rol, I hadn’t imagined linking this to the song by The Crystals.

It’s not one I’d call to be cancelled, primarily as I don’t think it is concerning itself with domestic violence per se.

Yup, it beings with ‘you hit me once, I hit you back, you gave me a kick, I gave you a slap, you smashed a plate over my head’ which is all very horrific sounding.  But the next line, delivered without any sort of pause - ‘then I set fire to our bed’ – is the key to everything as it confirms the lyrics are very much about imagery. The use of poetic license makes for a sound defence.

Burning beds are a common metaphor in pop songs, aren’t they? For all kinds of things…

Midnight Oil – Beds Are Burning

James - Laid

Alice Cooper - Burning Our Bed

Izzy Cox - Burn Your Bed

Morrissey - The Bed Took Fire

Little Stevens - Lyin' In A Bed Of Fire

None of those deliver quite the same context.

It’s all put into context by the next verse ‘My black eye casts no shadow, your red eye sees no blame, your slaps don't stick, your kicks don't hit, so we remain the same, love sticks, sweat drips, break the lock if it don’t fit.’

I think of it more as a cartoon love song that could be accompanied by scenes from ‘Tom and Jerry’ or ‘Itchy and Scratchy’. 

Quite – and funnily enough, C made exactly the same comparison…

Talking of irony, you also mentioned: Florence & The Machine:  Kiss With A Fist.

And I hear this very differently to the Crystals' song.  It's over-the-top, it has proper shock value, it's crazily extreme (I hope!) and it's this which somehow diminishes any seriousness.  It depicts its violence in a kind of 'Tom & Jerry' way - yes, I can visualise the animation for it now, the plate smashed to smithereens over the head of someone causing a whirl of dizzy stars as they fall to the ground with crossed eyes, the bed engulfed in a cartoon fire, flecks of soot and sparks flying everywhere....  It's vicious, visceral...in fact, too vicious, too visceral, to be truly troubling. Isn't that weird? - perhaps it should be very troubling, but its unrestrained ferocity, is the key - like a parody.  And it's two-way.  Not that I'm condoning two-way violence over one-way violence but, you know, fair's fair here.  I'm fine with this!

Some couples like a bit of rough, eh? And as long as everyone is consenting… well, it’s a free world, as Kirsty once said.

Billy Bragg - Levi Stubbs Tears 

Here’s Walter from A Few Good Times In My Life to summarise his opinion on both songs…

Although they have the same theme, their intentions are to be evaluated differently. While Florence & The Machine apparently addresses a violent relationship that is lived by both partners, The Crystals sing about domestic violence. Kiss With a Fist is a great and catchy pop song with an abstruse theme that I can't quite understand, but still tolerate. In He Hit Me, the partner's violence in the relationship is glorified and celebrated as proof of love. These ideas counteract pretty much everything women have fought for in recent decades and should no longer be played, as there is still too much domestic violence in our society.

Thank you, Walter – a fine summation of the overall feelings of the committee thus far. Although there’s still one member waiting to have his say – Swiss Adam from Bagging Area. And I’ve saved Adam to the end for a good reason. He was the only one brave enough to tackle the other song that I couldn’t help think about in regard to this particular subject…


(I tried to find the actual video and the only site that had it in full wanted me to age-verify before they'd let me watch it!)

Before we get onto that little beauty, let’s hear Adam’s thoughts on today’s principal defendant…

He Hit Me (And It Felt Like A Kiss) is a problematic song and I don't know where I stand on it. 

Domestic violence is very bad.

The song is clearly about domestic violence. 

It was co- written by Carole King (under Phil Spector's guidance).

Spector was a very bad person- imprisoned for murdering a woman and abusive to his wife Ronnie over many years. 

It was written by Goffin and King on discovering that their babysitter- Little Eva, yes, that Little Eva- was regularly beaten up by her boyfriend and when they asked her why she put up with it, she replied it was because he loved her so much. 

The song's musical backing is wonderfully Spectorian but also brooding and dark. The Crystals sing so sweetly but sound numbed.

Are the writers, singers and musicians merely documenting domestic violence? Is there a glorification of it? Does it normalise domestic violence?

Maybe. Maybe. Probably. 

Carole King later said she regretted ever writing the song and was a survivor of domestic abuse herself. 

It's bad news all round. 

Maybe it's best if it's seen as a time specific 1960s/ Phil Spector piece- and treated in the same way that we treat 'art' from the racist 1930s USA or 1940s Germany, something that existed, can be discussed historically/sociologically but not held up for enjoyment or admiration. 

We keep circling back to these overriding questions about art, its intention, our ability to consider it in context… and the question of whether everyone will / can do so in the same way. And do we have the right to censor art – to CANCEL it – just because other people might not be able to apply the same context and considerations that we do?

Is there even a kind of pseudo-intellectual arrogance in asking that question? Oh, the dilemma!

Sorry. Carry on, Adam…

Without it though, we'd never have had Spiritualized's She Kissed Me (And It felt Like A Hit) which is a brilliant inversion of the title and the song, Jason comparing love and narcotics in a way only he can. 

Spiritualized - She Kissed Me (It Felt Like a Hit)

Well, that is clearly a work of genius on all counts. But what about the elephant in the room, Adam?

The Prodigy's Smack My Bitch Up is also problematic. It was at the time. I always got a sense that The Prodigy knew it would be, that a deliberate wind up of left-wing sensibilities was behind it, that it was in some way 'punk'. Weird in a way because rave (which they came out of) was not misogynistic, it was very much desexualised in some ways, boys (with long hair) and girls (with short hair) in baggy clothes dancing to music in a field.

Smack My Bitch Up was a nod to hip hop (which had massive use of the word bitch all the place) and a shock factor song with an equally 'hey Mum I shocked the kids' video. Even at the time it felt like we should have moved past that, it was puerile rather than punk.

I always felt that it was a case of arrogant folly. Of trying too hard to be ‘punk’, crossing the same line that John Lydon did many years earlier… but because times had moved on, the Prodigy had to try so much harder to be shocking in the 90s than Johnny Rotten did in the 70s. I’d be interested to know if the song was written after the success of Breathe and Firestarter – if, following the triumph of those two discs, the band felt untouchable… but also felt they had to push the envelope much, much further to maintain their status. Positioning it as the opening track on Fat of the Land seems an intentionally button-pushing act of self-belief / over-confidence. 

The Beastie Boys weighed in and asked Prodigy not to play it at the Reading Festival (both were appearing on the same bill) and the Prodigy obviously said no. Rightly I guess - one artist can’t choose another's setlist. The Beastie Boys themselves had gone through their own awakening regarding gender equality and sexism, denouncing their own early sexist singles and their attitudes and apologising on Sure Shot -

'I want to say a little something that's long overdue
The disrespect to women has got to be through
To all the mothers and the sisters and the wives and friends
I want to offer my love and respect to the end'

The Beastie Boys - Sure Shot

3 MCs and 1 DJ - and personal growth. 

The word Bitch has gone around. In the 80s and 90s it became seen as misogynistic (rightly), a term used by men to demean women. I can't be the only one who remembers left wing activists chanting 'ditch the bitch' when protesting against Thatcher. I loathed Thatcher but that ain't right.

In the 90s the word seemed to be used mainly by men who wanted to appear edgy. Hello Quentin Tarantino (a man so edgy he liberally used the N- word too, writing scripts full of both words as if it was a personal mission to see how often he could get actors to say them - one of the most quoted lines from Reservoir Dogs is, 'Eddie, you keep talking like a bitch, I'm gonna slap you like a bitch'. He goes similarly off in Pulp Fiction 'why you trying to fuck him like a bitch?'). Tarantino looked at the world like a 13 year old boy. I think Smack My Bitch Up looks at it the same way. 

Interestingly my daughter, a history/ politics graduate, left wing feminist who wrote a dissertation on 4th wave feminism and beauty culture, uses the word bitch a lot - in a fairly non- genderised way, sometimes describing both men and women as 'bitches'- the exact meaning varies, it can be used to describe those who gossip and talk shit about people but also to describe people, male or female, who are sneaky, duplicitous or those don't stand up for themselves. She also uses it in a 'boss bitch' way, celebrating powerful women (the reclaiming the word thing, using it as a sign of strength and empowerment). Maybe we're post-bitch now. 

I wonder if the current usage of the word comes from the world of Drag Race and its ilk? Whenever I hear it used in that context, that’s what I think of. Or maybe Meredith Brooks just changed the world back in 1997 (same year as the Prodigy!)…

Meredith Brooks - Bitch

All of this is a lot of words to reach few conclusions. 

Maybe it's this - cancel none of them; but think carefully about them all. 

And there's no finer conclusion to this edition of the CCC than that.

Thank you, Adam. Thank you all.


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