Thursday, 9 April 2026

Mid-Life Crisis Songs #133: Wedding Day


Bill Callahan - Watch Me Get Married



Louise and I celebrated the 20th anniversary of our first date back in February, but though we've been together through thick and thin since then, we've never got married. Neither of us are really a fan of the ceremony, the expense, or being forced into the limelight. If that's what you wanted, good on you, but it was never for us.


Today though, we're getting married. It's a small registry office thing in the Town Hall - me, Lou, Sam, her Mum and partner as witnesses. No big do. No suit or dress. Not even any rings. No expense... well, a little expense, but you can't do anything for free, can you? We're doing it for a very boring reason - inheritance tax, so that if one of us dies, the other one (and Sam) will be a little better off than if we'd not tied the knot. Who says romance is dead?

Billy Bragg - The Marriage

There were many times in my life I thought I'd never meet anyone who'd want to stay with me. Since we met, Louise has always been there for me... even when I've done her head in. You can't ask for more than that, I don't think. And if you think this is a particularly unsentimental post, well, all I can tell you is that Louise wouldn't thank me for writing anything soppy.


I'm really hoping Billy Idol might ride his motorbike through the Town Hall window, but I'm betting he'll be bleaching his hair today. Then again, neither of us will be wearing white.



6 comments:

  1. You soppy fool. Congratulations to you both.

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  3. Whatever the reasons, congratulations to you both.

    If there are inheritance tax benefits, maybe I should talk to Mrs Amusements who, even after nearly 20 years, is not my actual missus.

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  4. Well whatever the reasons, congratulations- hope you both have a lovely day
    Swiss Adam

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  5. Ah, Rol, congratulations to you both and hope you have a good day doing whatever you both want to do.
    Very much with you on the type of wedding itself and the reasons - Mr SDS and I only made it official because at the time we thought I was going to have nowhere to live and the only chances of getting on a housing list were as a married couple....(but we ended up privately renting a shitty flat anyway.) It was just us and our two best friends as witnesses, we both wore black, and had skull-and-crossbones rings!

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  6. Congratulations Rol and partner. Your wedding, and the reason, is similar to ours ........are you going for samosas after ceremony?

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